DAY TWENTY: I DECLARE that I am calm and peaceful. I will not let people or circumstances upset me. I will rise above every difficulty, knowing that God has given me the power to remain calm. I choose to love my life happy, bloom where I am planted, and let God fight my battles. This is my declaration.o People have a right to say what they want, but you have every right to not get offended.o By getting upset, you give the other person power.o When you allow what someone says or does to upset you, you’re allowing them to control you.