You know, love is just like someone waiting for a bus.
When the bus comes, you look at it and you say to yourself
“eeee…so full…cannot sit down, I’ll wait for the next one.”
So you let that bus go and wait for the second bus. Then the
second bus comes, you look at it and you say, “eeee…this bus
is so old…so shabby!” So you let that bus go and again,
decide to wait for the next bus.
After a while another bus comes, it’s not crowded, not old but
you say, “eeee… not air-conditioned …better wait for the
So again you let the bus go and decide to wait for the next bus.
Then the sky starts to get dark as it is getting late.
You panic and jump immediately inside the next bus. It is not
until much later that you found out that you had boarded the
So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you wanted!
Even if an air-conditioned bus comes, you can’t ensure that the
air-conditioned bus won’t break down or whether or not the
airconditioner will be too cold for you.
So people… wanting to get what you want is not wrong. But it
wouldn’t hurt to give other people a chance, right? If you find
that the “bus” doesn’t suit you, just press the red button and
get off the bus (as simple as that).
Hey who said life is fair??? The best thing to do is be
observant and open while you scrutinize the bus. If it doesn’t
suit you, get off. But you must always have an extra something
which you could use for the next bus that comes.
But wait… I’m sure you’ve had this experience before.
You saw a bus coming (the bus you want, of course), you flagged
it but the driver acted as if he did not see you and zoomed past
you! It just wasn’t meant for you!
The bottom line is, being loved is like waiting for a bus you
want. Getting on the bus and appreciating the bus by giving it
a chance depends totally on you. If you haven’t made a choice,
WALK! Walking is like being out of love. The good side of it is
you can still choose any bus you want… the rest who couldn’t
afford another ride would just have to be content with the bus
they rode on.
One more thing…. sometimes it’s better to choose a bus you are
already familiar with rather than gamble with a bus that is
unfamiliar to you. But then again, life wouldn’t be complete
without the risks involved.
But there’s one bus that I forgot to tell you about – the bus
that you don’t have to wait for. It will just stop on its own
and will ask you to come inside and take a free ride for the
rest of your life.