Last night I received a text from a long long ago ex that I dated for 5 years saying that he is getting married next year.   “The whole white picket fence and everything” is how he described it.  I told him I was glad that he was happy. 

He said, I am, but she’s not you…and I always think about our laughs and the good times we had.

Why do they do that? Why do they come back when you have no ounce of feelings for them anymore?  I remember there were so many nights I lay wishing he would realize what a catch I am. 😉 ahahha!!

Ultimately though, it upsets me that he has that “but”….that one thing that is holding him back from complete happiness.  I wish him the best and hope he finds his laughter….