Un-setting your heart means letting go of your picture of how you want it all to be. It means letting go of trying to control things over which you have no control. Trust me when I tell you that one of the prime causes of our suffering is our wanting things to be different than they are. Yes, we all want a peaceful world instead of a world filled with weapons of mass destruction. Yes, we all want health instead of illness. Yes, we all want healthy, happy children instead of children who break our hearts. But sometimes life doesn’t hand us what we want. And when we un-set our hearts to our needing it all to be a certain way, we can breathe a sigh of relief and open the door to a more powerful way of living.