
Whatever happened to Chivalry?
Whatever happened to Courting?
Whatever happened to Flowers just Because?
What happened to calling someone the day you got their number?
Whatever happened to calling/texting just because someone is on your mind?
Whatever happened to those “story book” romances? Do they exist?
Have bad girls ruined the nice guys?
Do nice guys still exist?
It seems like guys now feel they have to play “games”
They have to wait “2 days” before calling or they think it makes them seem to eager.
They hesitate to call when they really want to.
They spend time with their friends when they’d rather be with you, because they don’t want to look “like a pansy” in front of their friends.
They want to skip third base and go all the way to home on the first date.
They are with you but still with a wandering eye.
Whatever happened to trust?
I know most girls want bad boys, but most WOMEN want good MEN….
Whatever happened to the gentleman, the good guy, the knight in shining armor?
Do they still exist?
[12:01] TheosCat: Because girls don’t create a demand for good boys.
[12:02] TheosCat: You can’t get good men from bad boys
Good men are at home pining for a woman who is currently laying underneath a drug dealer.
And we don’t call that day because if we did (and if the number is actually a real number), the woman would consider us needy and clingy.
These are really good questions. I think good men do exist. I think we have to actually look for them, because they don’t run in packs. It might be the shy guy or the quiet guy. More than likely it’s probably an older guy! LOL
I agree with all of your questions and I must say that it is hard to find a good guy. It’s like a needle in a haystack. A lot of guys have issues with maturity and tend to play games. If they like the girl then they should just go ahead and dive head first for it and not beat around the bush. And btw chivalry is dead…….that’s just my .02
Chivalry is NOT dead. Deep down I want to be a good guy, I hope I am. I want to respect women, I want to remain pure for marriage. I delight in a woman who saves herself for her future husband. But your right nice guys are VERY rare in this world, but to be honest there is not really a high demand for them either.