Being ready for a relationship….

 

 Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you.  They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.  ~Author Unknown

With all this talk about the future and what lies ahead in my destiny…I got to thinking about having a serious relationship and what it would entail.  …

  • Sharing and caring about each other
  • Being there for each other no matter what
  • Knowing there is always someone to take to social events
  • Having someone to have inside jokes with
  • Having someone to call my own
  • Having someone to do fun things with that we both enjoy
  • Learning how to love unconditionally again w/ someone
  • having someone to come home to every night and cuddle with

What will this take:

  • Taking the risk of having my heartbroken again
  • Getting past the fact that I’ve been jaded
  • Taking the risk of falling in love and not being caught
  • Be willing to compromise my time
  • Being ready to open up and let my walls down
  • Being ready to look past some faults in another person
  • Being ready to love unconditionally again
  • Being ready to allow myself to worry and care about someone again
  • Being willing to share my closet…if I eventually have to…

Thats a lot of willing I’ve got to do…. but the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks.  It’s taken me a while to get past my last relationship, and I can finally say that I’m willing to open my heart! 

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